Good Fun With Bad Words: Five Familiar Woman-Specific Slang Terms [View all]
Good Fun With Bad Words: Five Familiar Woman-Specific Slang Terms And Their Lesser-Known Historical Origibs
And so, let's start with something soft and nonthreatening.
Pussy
Ah, pussy. Good old reliable pussy. Like many of the words on this list, "pussy" has layers of meaning and connotation. In a concrete sense, "pussy" refers to a vulva and vagina. In a slang sense, its often used against men as a term of derision, usually to indicate that the dude in question is an ineffectual wimp.
Because supposedly nothing is more offensive to men than being told they are like women in any way whatsoever.
Pussys precise origins are unclear; what we do know is that its a very old word. It has evidently been used as an affectionate term for women (and possibly effeminate men) since the 1580s, and is thought to be originally connected to puss as a call-word for cats.
Most etymology sources seem to agree that the connection with genitalia specifically, rather than women in general, came later. Once upon a time, you might call a sweet girl a "pussy" like you would call her a doll today. (Alternatively, some argue it may have stemmed from the Old Norse word for pocket, which apparently provides the origins for the Low German word for vulva, puse.)
http://www.xojane.com/fun/bad-words-misogyny-edition
It's also homophobic.