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boston bean

(36,533 posts)
Mon Dec 15, 2014, 08:56 AM Dec 2014

Baiting, from one of them "real feminists" [View all]

I am a Democratic committeeman, I've run for office as a Democrat and I've fought for gender justice for years in public and private venues and to be accused of sexism by anonymous harpies is not only unfair to me (and to the others it's happened to) but destructive to the "democratic ideals" I keep hearing about here.

This site has about zero credibility in the real world, and nonsense like this "word misogyny" will keep it that way.

Maybe that's what some of you have in mind.


You're not fighting for a damn thing.

You're just complaining about things you don't like.

Save your lectures for some place that counts.

Nobody even knows who you are, or cares much. You are simply a compilation of tiny black dots on a screen representing various amounts of spittle over presumed slights. (And don't think I think I'm anything more.)

Gender justice? In real life I've stood up for reproductive rights, maternal leave, breaking glass ceilings and other things real people care about and can't let a silly word get in the way of.

And, this is not the Democratic party that I belong to-- it's a sounding board that doesn't put up candidates, raise money, make phone calls, attend town board meetings, address local or regional issues, or have any significant effect on local, regional, or national policies or elections.

But it can get into a tizzy over a word.


Wow, what a supportive guy... If this is representative of the Democratic Party on a local level, I'm going to have to re-think my membership.





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MYSOGENY, ask any woman, we will tell you it is real, and it is really happening in this world. Dont call me Shirley Dec 2014 #1
du is morphing with di. nt seabeyond Dec 2014 #2
If I can say two good things about that thread NuclearDem Dec 2014 #3
Yay for the harpies! MuseRider Dec 2014 #4
I can damned well insult you any time I want. seabeyond Dec 2014 #5
Well, jury voted 1-6 to keep it,so... malthaussen Dec 2014 #6
I've put about 30 people on my ignore list this morning, criteria=sexist. I'm trying it to see if seaglass Dec 2014 #7
The ever increasing sexism and misogyny on DU chervilant Dec 2014 #8
the thread in GD was locked, calling out the use of the p word. i was typing a reply to the one seabeyond Dec 2014 #9
the p word is never used for the cowardly woman. it is exclusively used toward men to seabeyond Dec 2014 #10
And yet today I read this in ATA regarding the use of the n-word: JTFrog Dec 2014 #11
thank you for posting this. i needed to know administrations position. nt seabeyond Dec 2014 #12
At least he knows that it's sexist I guess. JTFrog Dec 2014 #13
I don't know what thread you are speaking of. Could you provide a link? boston bean Dec 2014 #14
here you go seabeyond Dec 2014 #15
Well they got the system all locked up in a nice box. boston bean Dec 2014 #17
yet, locking a thread is not dealing with an anonymous jury of whoever. it is set to be consistent. seabeyond Dec 2014 #18
Everywhere you go, people are the same, even groups NM_Birder Dec 2014 #35
To be fair, the hosts are supposed to lock Meta topics. cyberswede Dec 2014 #21
another was locked. we have recently had OPs calling out du racism. those posts stood. why are Op seabeyond Dec 2014 #16
good question, why the hypocrisy? indeed. Tuesday Afternoon Dec 2014 #20
Can you help me out? cyberswede Dec 2014 #22
In the post sea references above, boston bean Dec 2014 #23
I believe the hosts felt that this part was "disruptive meta" cyberswede Dec 2014 #24
Bday cake to make. Can't hunt links. Maybe others can find or later. Yes du was referenced. seabeyond Dec 2014 #25
Thanks...birthday ake sounds way more fun! cyberswede Dec 2014 #28
I did not write the line mentioning MerryBlooms. NM_Birder Dec 2014 #37
Meh-- fuck that ismnotwasm Dec 2014 #19
I would rather have someone doing the real work to help us support our rights Warpy Dec 2014 #26
Words people use show a certain mindset. Ignore it if you want, but I won't. boston bean Dec 2014 #27
Words don't magically go away and they certainly don't if you sit back with your mouth shut seaglass Dec 2014 #29
Right, because whenever I go to my local Democratic office BainsBane Dec 2014 #30
I know huh. Can you imagine a gaveling of the group to come to order boston bean Dec 2014 #31
Hey, fellow HOFers, I feel obliged to warn you... NuclearDem Dec 2014 #32
Oh dear ismnotwasm Dec 2014 #33
yes. havent we all been there. to reply, ON A DISCUSSION BOARD, makes a person a stalker. seabeyond Dec 2014 #36
Ahhh, yes. Lunacee_2013 Dec 2014 #34
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