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Ilsa

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24. There are different types of dementia
Mon Apr 26, 2021, 04:53 PM
Apr 2021

and medications to slow it. Get a referral to a neurologist for a proper diagnosis. If don't have a power of attorney yet, you probably need to get one. His ability to function in taking care of himself should be assessed to start s baseline.

I'm caring for my MIL with dementia. Her filter is almost gone. She can go from sweet & happy to vicious and miserable if the wrong words are spoken in front of her. One day she came up from her basement apartment and complained about my dogs, who can't get in to her apartment unless she lets them in. She whacked my old female dog, who was lying down, with a magazine. That set me off worse than her calling the cops on her son (my husband) over a nonexistent crime. I told her to go back to her apartment if she doesn't like being around my dogs, who live upstairs.

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Talk to your Doctor Turbineguy Apr 2021 #1
if he has a regular doc, start there. mopinko Apr 2021 #2
Doctor who specializes in neurology is called a neurologist. multigraincracker Apr 2021 #3
Have you tried one of the otc memory pills? In_The_Wind Apr 2021 #4
fyi OLDMDDEM Apr 2021 #5
Yes, see your family doctor. They will refer you to whoever based on their diagnosis. Most family ratchiweenie Apr 2021 #10
none of us are ever ready markie Apr 2021 #6
In addition to the doctor, Borchkins Apr 2021 #7
My grandmother and mother tried to take care of my grandfather when his memory was failing... Thomas Hurt Apr 2021 #8
Neurologist. Jirel Apr 2021 #9
Basic physical 1st IbogaProject Apr 2021 #11
My heart goes to you, dear a Kennedy. MLAA Apr 2021 #12
yes, call your doctor barbtries Apr 2021 #13
i'm so sorry keithsw Apr 2021 #14
Thank you for this thread. As ever, DU is such a treasure. mahina Apr 2021 #15
Thank you ALL so much, I will be calling his primary care doctor tomorrow...... a kennedy Apr 2021 #16
So sorry to hear this wryter2000 Apr 2021 #17
one more thing NJCher Apr 2021 #23
Suggest you look into a local support group for yourself Auggie Apr 2021 #18
You've gotten good info so far Jilly_in_VA Apr 2021 #19
Talk to your doctor and get a physical. It may not be as catastrophic as you fear. Midnight Writer Apr 2021 #20
I'm sorry. Jay25 Apr 2021 #21
By all means talk to your doctor and get a diagnosis as soon as possible. My family has a situation japple Apr 2021 #22
If your sister has Alzheimer's and not some other form of dementia (e.g., Lewy Body), wackadoo wabbit Apr 2021 #26
I would be interested to look at the information you referenced. My sister's short term memory is japple Apr 2021 #27
I was going to DM you the info, but then I realized there's no reason not to post the links here wackadoo wabbit Apr 2021 #29
There are different types of dementia Ilsa Apr 2021 #24
Your PCP should be able to administer a MoCa exam, which is a simple test for cognitive impairment wackadoo wabbit Apr 2021 #25
For my mother her primary care referred us to neurologist who 7wo7rees Apr 2021 #28
How is he doing? XanaDUer2 Jun 2024 #30
This seems so surreal, that was in 2021.........he passed away May 4. a kennedy Jun 2024 #31
I'm so sorry XanaDUer2 Jun 2024 #32
and reading my original post, I didn't realize that he was starting to get bad back then........ a kennedy Jun 2024 #33
No problem XanaDUer2 Jun 2024 #34
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