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Ilsa

(62,286 posts)
18. Your story is
Sat Mar 23, 2013, 03:27 PM
Mar 2013

a particularly brutal one. I hope my recognition of that doesn't cause you further pain.

My guess is that most of us are victimized sexually once or twice (date rape and stranger rape) and have to incorporate those traumas into fairly "normal" lives. Your life has been a series of abuses beginning with neglect. I feel for you and the daily struggle evoked by such a harsh existence. You truly have had to be strong to survive this. I wish you peace.

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I am truly sorry you experienced all of this. In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #1
Thank you, sincerely. I am also sorry for the things you've endured. FedUpWithIt All Mar 2013 #4
My only wish is that we find peace. In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #5
That is understandable. FedUpWithIt All Mar 2013 #8
I really am trying. I want to unpack all of this baggage, discard it, go on. In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #10
"First and foremost ... do no harm to myself." FedUpWithIt All Mar 2013 #12
Indeed! I love me the most. In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #13
Bravo! Sekhmets Daughter Mar 2013 #16
That is the only thing that is acceptable. In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #17
A few thoughts. Behind the Aegis Mar 2013 #2
I think it is part of the nature of the beast that directly leads to the self doubt and confusion. FedUpWithIt All Mar 2013 #6
You don't need to apologize for Ilsa Mar 2013 #3
Thank you Ilsa. FedUpWithIt All Mar 2013 #7
Your story is Ilsa Mar 2013 #18
I wish the same for you FedUpWithIt All Mar 2013 #23
I too had a difficult time identifying my childhood experiences Voice for Peace Mar 2013 #9
This brought tears to my eyes. FedUpWithIt All Mar 2013 #11
I understand your reluctance to label what happened... Kalidurga Mar 2013 #14
I'm really sorry that you and your siblings weren't protected. FedUpWithIt All Mar 2013 #20
I am so sorry. Ms. Toad Mar 2013 #15
I am beginning to see the real value of sharing. FedUpWithIt All Mar 2013 #21
Hi Fedupwithitall! Sissyk Mar 2013 #19
Thank you Sissyk FedUpWithIt All Mar 2013 #22
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