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In_The_Wind

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3. I'm glad your mom lived through being shot to find happiness.
Tue Apr 9, 2013, 08:00 PM
Apr 2013

It was a lucky break that both you and your brother were unharmed by your mom's first husband.



I grew up watching (being a part of) my stepmothers fights with my father. It always started out the same way ... way too much booze. Both stepmothers (the 1st one died from complications caused by cirrhosis of the liver) would hit my father's head and face until he retaliated. So many times I tried to stop the fighting only to become a part of it. Domestic violence hurts every member of the family.

Be kind to yourself.



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ok, here goes... [View all] one_voice Apr 2013 OP
We are here. Betsy Ross Apr 2013 #1
one_voice, I am so happy your mom, Sissyk Apr 2013 #2
I'm glad your mom lived through being shot to find happiness. In_The_Wind Apr 2013 #3
My grandfather beat my grandmother, my father beat me and my mother, and theyuseitagainstyou Apr 2013 #4
Welcome to this group, theyuseitagainstyou. Sissyk Apr 2013 #5
Thank you Sissyk. theyuseitagainstyou Apr 2013 #6
I'm so sorry that you were abused. In_The_Wind Apr 2013 #7
Welcome to the group. one_voice Apr 2013 #8
Welcome to DU theyuseitagainstyou FedUpWithIt All Dec 2013 #11
one of the best ways to stop hurting is to break the chains olddots Apr 2013 #9
I'm sorry one_voice FedUpWithIt All Dec 2013 #10
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