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LogDog75

(421 posts)
169. As a senior citizen
Thu Dec 19, 2024, 01:44 AM
Dec 2024

The issue of ageism isn't new and every generation has gone through it. The older generation is reluctant to transfer power to the younger generation and the younger generation is impatient waiting for the older generation to move aside. The hardest thing for people to do is admit when it's time for them to step down and allow someone younger to fill their position. Part of it is in our denial that we are getting older, that society is always geared to the young (20 - 35 years old) generation(s), and not our generation, we tend to be resistant to change, we resent the threat the younger generation(s) pose to us in our jobs or position in society, and we're just too stubborn to change.

I'm not saying everyone over 65 needs to step aside or retire but we need to accept the fact we've been there, done that and now it's another generation's turn. In terms of things like politics age can be both an advantage and an hindrance. An 80 year old Congressperson may be effect but they know their remaining time in office is limited so they should recognize when it's time to call it quits and allow a future leader to follow in their footsteps. For many, their elected office or company position or standing in the community is their identity and giving that up is admitting they are no longer valued. Change is hard and it's the fear of change from what you've done for years and who you are. There comes a time in the life of every person when they have to decide they need to step down and it's one of the hardest decision they'll have to make.

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I agree Meowmee Dec 2024 #1
I just saw a post where a duer ranted against president Biden calling him OLD !!! What the HELL Trueblue1968 Dec 2024 #100
Yes, I agree, sad to see this but I have seen similar things before now as well... Meowmee Dec 2024 #148
I am a senior citizen malaise Dec 2024 #2
I am a senior citizen too. sheshe2 Dec 2024 #8
Message auto-removed Name removed Dec 2024 #12
If a majority of younger people had voted viva la Dec 2024 #14
You are 100% correct. sheshe2 Dec 2024 #49
No BonnieJW Dec 2024 #72
So at 18 years of age..... SergeStorms Dec 2024 #92
i don't think anyone here said that an 18 yr old should "take the reins of power" orleans Dec 2024 #144
Bullshit. B.See Dec 2024 #138
And if they don't vote they will never have the representation they seek. sheshe2 Dec 2024 #143
Well, I'm not sure how to fix that. viva la Dec 2024 #149
I've voted in every election since I was eligible mcar Dec 2024 #226
Another way of saying that is Bluetus Dec 2024 #276
Precisely, Viva. B.See Dec 2024 #131
This. mcar Dec 2024 #225
Years and years of hard work is what made us capable. sheshe2 Dec 2024 #16
Sorry malaise Dec 2024 #27
LOL. sheshe2 Dec 2024 #40
I have to laugh. viva la Dec 2024 #154
Both generations can learn from each other malaise Dec 2024 #193
I got my first computer in 1984. viva la Dec 2024 #227
Agree. Bought the first Mac available to use in my work. spooky3 Dec 2024 #255
Keep on ridiculing them malaise Dec 2024 #187
Who is ridiculing whom? viva la Dec 2024 #237
We did just that, didn't we? Hekate Dec 2024 #157
Thus has it ever been, slightlv Dec 2024 #24
Isn't that the way of the world? COL Mustard Dec 2024 #25
Not truth, but a very old bumper sticker. woven Dec 2024 #62
Welcome to DU! spooky3 Dec 2024 #68
ty woven Dec 2024 #78
Then, I'm glad you now are posting! nt spooky3 Dec 2024 #80
Welcome to DU LetMyPeopleVote Dec 2024 #270
No, Asa. Most will have to live B.See Dec 2024 #130
When I'm younger and want your job Progressive dog Dec 2024 #67
I believe that's the point, the proven results. Think. Again. Dec 2024 #182
Maybe not take over BonnieJW Dec 2024 #71
They are already in. sheshe2 Dec 2024 #117
"Seniority" is an artificial construct that can be ignored. Renew Deal Dec 2024 #126
Examples please. sheshe2 Dec 2024 #172
There's the problem, isn't it? "She needs to serve her time". Why? muriel_volestrangler Dec 2024 #181
Wasn't there a vote? I think it's a matter of not convincing her colleagues to vote for her. jimfields33 Dec 2024 #190
There was a vote, so it was the Dem reps' opinion that decided. But I'd hope they didn't base that on muriel_volestrangler Dec 2024 #191
That's a very "hey kids, get off the grass" way of looking it Renew Deal Dec 2024 #124
You know, at some point, if you want it bad enough-- viva la Dec 2024 #240
Results are crap right now. Takeover needed by new Democrats. Lucky Luciano Dec 2024 #125
It's not so much age, but whether you can pass specific tests. Like for instance RoeVWade Dec 2024 #222
They don't want our advice. SergeStorms Dec 2024 #89
Can you blame them. malaise Dec 2024 #186
I have never been able to buy a house or condo. LisaM Dec 2024 #274
What does that even mean? Happy Hoosier Dec 2024 #217
You do know what AOC is doing now? Captain Zero Dec 2024 #278
Yep, guess all we're good for is the trash. greatauntoftriplets Dec 2024 #3
I guess some think we should be put out to pasture. sheshe2 Dec 2024 #9
Or set adrift on an ice floe Seeking Serenity Dec 2024 #38
Maybe...but with climate change there won't be any ice left. sheshe2 Dec 2024 #52
M a y b e that's the unspoken intention. Seeking Serenity Dec 2024 #56
Yes you do JustAnotherGen Dec 2024 #115
I am a boomer, age 75. I recently commented wnylib Dec 2024 #233
You should be at home raising your grandkids. S Keepthesoulalive Dec 2024 #41
Please don't rat me out to Eloon.... greatauntoftriplets Dec 2024 #108
Well Keepthesoulalive Dec 2024 #114
Poor babies will go hungry if they have to depend on that. greatauntoftriplets Dec 2024 #118
Or Beardo SheltieLover Dec 2024 #127
Him too. greatauntoftriplets Dec 2024 #140
And where have we heard that before? radical noodle Dec 2024 #133
My point Keepthesoulalive Dec 2024 #155
I agree with you, SheShe SheltieLover Dec 2024 #4
Great analogy, SheltieLover. sheshe2 Dec 2024 #19
Ty, She! SheltieLover Dec 2024 #121
Thats Sheltie! kozar Dec 2024 #32
Hi Koz SheltieLover Dec 2024 #120
Why was Biden being bashed at the Verizon store? BannonsLiver Dec 2024 #81
I think its more about people who cannot give up power nt msongs Dec 2024 #5
Yes, absolutely. Celerity Dec 2024 #10
Absolutely not. sheshe2 Dec 2024 #20
disagree nt Celerity Dec 2024 #86
As do I with you. nt sheshe2 Dec 2024 #90
Exactly.. Absolutely NOT. That's so insulting. Cha Dec 2024 #94
100% Spot on Celerity SunImp Dec 2024 #161
+1 leftstreet Dec 2024 #129
But the caucus voted. It wasn't up to the candidates to decide spooky3 Dec 2024 #257
I assume this is about AOC Trenzalore Dec 2024 #6
Partially, however the comments went way beyond politics. sheshe2 Dec 2024 #13
Generations are always at odds Trenzalore Dec 2024 #17
AOC may be claudette Dec 2024 #46
I think experience may be overrated right now Trenzalore Dec 2024 #58
May be but claudette Dec 2024 #109
That is a matter of opinion Trenzalore Dec 2024 #116
AOC well deserved the chair, as her brand of progressive populism is the key to the Democratic Party's future success!! InAbLuEsTaTe Dec 2024 #83
However claudette Dec 2024 #110
Whatever will help the democratic party become a majority party in 2027 should take precedence Trenzalore Dec 2024 #185
Hold on claudette Dec 2024 #197
Obama had just started his first term as a federal senator questionseverything Dec 2024 #205
Oh please claudette Dec 2024 #210
Not a tenth as intelligent? That's bs and insulting to all women questionseverything Dec 2024 #214
Every candidate that ran in 2008 had more experience than President Obama Trenzalore Dec 2024 #224
Inexperienced in doing what exactly? ThePartyThatListens Dec 2024 #254
The Speaker Emerita is still a serving member of Congress, newly re-elected. She didn't quit the job... Hekate Dec 2024 #162
That is my point Trenzalore Dec 2024 #175
Her constituents wanted her to continue. Nt spooky3 Dec 2024 #258
When you were the leader Trenzalore Dec 2024 #264
That is why constituents are given a vote. If they agreed with you, spooky3 Dec 2024 #267
Yeah, AOC not getting that ranking member post is not the end of the world. Even if it wasn't... brush Dec 2024 #7
I agree... slightlv Dec 2024 #29
Exactly! claudette Dec 2024 #48
Nonsense, we need the best person for every job. Think. Again. Dec 2024 #184
Sorry claudette Dec 2024 #196
That's weird, I didn't say she was mine either. Think. Again. Dec 2024 #245
So, when she's 70 or 80? Bettie Dec 2024 #76
Be fair. She's 35. Stop exagerating. There are Dems in their late 30s... brush Dec 2024 #139
Let's put it this way. Would you want relatively new hire to leapfrog over you... brush Dec 2024 #242
exactly--she has not paid her dues cadoman Dec 2024 #216
She sided with "the public"? displacedvermoter Dec 2024 #251
It is bigotry and a disgusting look for a Democrat. brer cat Dec 2024 #11
mature and wise is no guarantee of best and most capable nt msongs Dec 2024 #15
Nor is being young a guarantee of best and most capable. sheshe2 Dec 2024 #22
Excellent Response.. TY! Cha Dec 2024 #35
Wait ..what's wrong with being "wise"? Being wise is an important trait. People go seek the advice of wise people... electric_blue68 Dec 2024 #164
Nor is young and smart Iris Dec 2024 #275
The Party, including a number of the folks who voted displacedvermoter Dec 2024 #37
Some might say that she needs to exhibit patience, achieve things with what she does have Seeking Serenity Dec 2024 #45
She's still a claudette Dec 2024 #50
Please do share how AOC acts like 'a newbie' at this point. Celerity Dec 2024 #136
I would have agreed with that remark 4 or 5 years ago. NH Ethylene Dec 2024 #168
Sorry claudette Dec 2024 #198
Non responsive to my specific question. Your opinion is not evidence. Celerity Dec 2024 #202
Describe how she acts ThePartyThatListens Dec 2024 #253
She was one of 80 year old Joe Biden's most displacedvermoter Dec 2024 #57
The Democratic caucus did not agree. Seeking Serenity Dec 2024 #65
I don't know what you are saying, really displacedvermoter Dec 2024 #79
This is what ultimately won me over. BannonsLiver Dec 2024 #73
Some say... Cirsium Dec 2024 #84
It's not their age that's is the problem ThePartyThatListens Dec 2024 #250
Many will see bigotry, because of the seeming hypocrisy and not choosing a woman, a Hispanic woman at that. DontBelieveEastisEas Dec 2024 #96
Congressman Connolly may well be dying of cancer. displacedvermoter Dec 2024 #102
"may well be dying" Mossfern Dec 2024 #228
I have no idea how cognitively impaired he is. displacedvermoter Dec 2024 #230
So we are to say nothing as we watch TSF in decline this next four years? Sneederbunk Dec 2024 #18
Where are you reading that? sheshe2 Dec 2024 #23
Ffs it's about new ideas, new ways, new techniques Arazi Dec 2024 #21
Excellent take!! AOC's progressive ideas are EXACTLY those that will resonate with the American populace!! InAbLuEsTaTe Dec 2024 #111
A lot of it should be mentoring LogDog75 Dec 2024 #265
Mahalo, she.. as you say the Trashing is "way beyond policy".. Cha Dec 2024 #26
You are right Cha, the focus now is the shutdown. sheshe2 Dec 2024 #36
Yes Fucking nazi lover Fascist POS Muskhead Cha Dec 2024 #64
Musk bought the 'residency. sheshe2 Dec 2024 #107
Yes, musk bought the WH for TSF with Million$ Cha Dec 2024 #122
PS I just read This by Josh Marshall on TSF & musk... Cha Dec 2024 #135
That is frightening, isn't it. sheshe2 Dec 2024 #142
I know .. I can't even, either. And I know it's asking a Lot Cha Dec 2024 #150
Aloha, Cha, & Mahalo SheltieLover Dec 2024 #141
Aloha Sheltie! Cha Dec 2024 #146
K&R LW1977 Dec 2024 #28
There's a thing called provocation OP ThePartyThatListens Dec 2024 #30
Refusing to learn what, exactly? Hekate Dec 2024 #165
The lessons of November 2024 ThePartyThatListens Dec 2024 #177
The election lessons are that Trump was elected based on Nixie Dec 2024 #200
So now we are looking to Republicans reactions to our party, Emile Dec 2024 #203
My comment was about the election results. Nixie Dec 2024 #207
I don't think we should be using Republican reactions to AOC Emile Dec 2024 #211
Trump is a con man. I'll make that easy for you since Nixie Dec 2024 #236
Well shit everyone knows that. That's a strawman Emile Dec 2024 #246
No kidding. That's why I brought up the article in which he is pushing AOC to lead Democrats. Nixie Dec 2024 #260
Of course he's a con man. I said that back Emile Dec 2024 #262
Which is what I was saying. A Republican con man wants AOC to keep trying to lead Democrats, so Nixie Dec 2024 #263
Try to learn... ThePartyThatListens Dec 2024 #231
Yawn. Some rando on the internet. Nixie Dec 2024 #235
Thanks for posting. Emile Dec 2024 #247
Yes bucolic_frolic Dec 2024 #31
Me too. leftieNanner Dec 2024 #33
I'm old and I'm not. Crunchy Frog Dec 2024 #34
Guess I have no f'in idea what your talking about. Perhaps give a couple examples? erronis Dec 2024 #39
Me neither... besides, ironically, Bernie has been unfairly criticized over his age by some practically nonstop. InAbLuEsTaTe Dec 2024 #95
Yes, but apparently some here say it's only Pelosi and others being criticized for their age SunImp Dec 2024 #160
Yes, it's not only Pelosi and that form of criticism is not fair to her either... or to AOC for her relative youth. InAbLuEsTaTe Dec 2024 #170
I believe this thread is an absolutely perfect example of why the Democratic party needs fresh voices. Think. Again. Dec 2024 #42
Fuckin A. BannonsLiver Dec 2024 #77
30 is the cut-off age. Tarzanrock Dec 2024 #43
I've never had any personal delusions about my usefulness. Aussie105 Dec 2024 #44
A Similar Thread will appear in 20 years! BOSSHOG Dec 2024 #47
Its a generational change. kozar Dec 2024 #51
Amen and amen n/t Lulu KC Dec 2024 #53
Question for anyone: I'd be interested to hear the plan for connecting with young voters Orrex Dec 2024 #54
David Hogg, Taylor Swift and Victor Shi... sheshe2 Dec 2024 #69
But what is the party doing, and how does picking Connolly over AOC further that strategy? Orrex Dec 2024 #75
I don't get it either. InAbLuEsTaTe Dec 2024 #93
How many of our experienced leaders do we have to kick to the curb before we "inspire young voters to go to the polls?" W_HAMILTON Dec 2024 #176
A few things Orrex Dec 2024 #192
Pelois was the most powerful Democrat in the House. Hoyer was the second. Clyburn was the third. W_HAMILTON Dec 2024 #273
Hey, try being a well-to-do, 65+ white male around here, we don't get no respect! Abolishinist Dec 2024 #55
Yes, agree. Also this BS about how Dems are losing people over not giving AOC a ranking LymphocyteLover Dec 2024 #59
How so? Xoan Dec 2024 #85
the vast majority of voters have no clue who the ranking member is and this ranking member LymphocyteLover Dec 2024 #206
Politically? Renew Deal Dec 2024 #60
I too am appalled at the agism quakerboy Dec 2024 #61
This message was self-deleted by its author Chin music Dec 2024 #194
Paging Bob Dylan GusBob Dec 2024 #63
Here you go Cirsium Dec 2024 #88
Before my time but there is another verse, I think GusBob Dec 2024 #105
There was a time Codifer Dec 2024 #66
Absolutely agree with this. The ageist comments are disgusting. Akacia Dec 2024 #70
There is no place for ageism... and that should include insensitive ageist comments hurled at Bernie!! InAbLuEsTaTe Dec 2024 #104
Yeah, I remember the " No more old white men" phrase that was all the rage during the 2016 primary, here on DU. jalan48 Dec 2024 #123
and the PUMA racism in 2008. nt RandiFan1290 Dec 2024 #189
What age does AOC become useful? Emile Dec 2024 #74
AOC, right now, is the leading progressive populist in our party after Bernie... InAbLuEsTaTe Dec 2024 #87
Not all people who were useful in the past are useful in the future. RockRaven Dec 2024 #82
I'm appalled at the bigoted comments I am reading SocialDemocrat61 Dec 2024 #91
Not credible Cirsium Dec 2024 #97
This message was self-deleted by its author InAbLuEsTaTe Dec 2024 #98
Exactly SocialDemocrat61 Dec 2024 #119
+1 leftstreet Dec 2024 #134
Not the first thread on this topic & probably not the last SunImp Dec 2024 #163
when fascism is on the line, MAYBE Skittles Dec 2024 #99
I wasn't going to get involved in this discussion, but you are SO right!!!!! DFW Dec 2024 #101
Do you think you could do all of that while taking chemotherapy? questionseverything Dec 2024 #213
If I'm ambulatory and not in pain, sure. DFW Dec 2024 #243
I'm 70 canetoad Dec 2024 #103
I'm 76. Tanned, rested and ready. usonian Dec 2024 #106
Where do you file? sheshe2 Dec 2024 #112
Luckily for everyone here, H2O Man Dec 2024 #113
Yes, connelly is a millionaire and takes alot of different moneys i am not comfortable with questionseverything Dec 2024 #208
Sheshe, you are 100% right! Look at Bernie's age--it's given Nixie Dec 2024 #128
Rec! Mahalo, Nixie! Cha Dec 2024 #153
Wrong, we see the same people crying about Bernie's age all the time by the same people SunImp Dec 2024 #158
Don't accuse the DU member of "lying".. I haven't seen anyone Cha Dec 2024 #178
What a joke. Try and be consistent and call for Bernie to move Nixie Dec 2024 #188
"Look at Bernie's age--it's given a pass" SunImp Dec 2024 #219
Those are not pile on threads. One was my post. Juxtaposing Nixie Dec 2024 #238
The very same people. Autumn Dec 2024 #234
Agree with you sheshe2 debm55 Dec 2024 #132
The ageism here is against AOC. Emile Dec 2024 #137
THIS!! InAbLuEsTaTe Dec 2024 #159
Elizabeth Warren onenote Dec 2024 #145
Connolly's cancer diagnosis was only announced after the election muriel_volestrangler Dec 2024 #183
What is your experience with esophageal cancer? onenote Dec 2024 #244
Me too, for a family member, who was deemed too old and with complications muriel_volestrangler Dec 2024 #252
Biden did a great job as president doc03 Dec 2024 #147
I'm just gobsmacked by some of the posts I've seen on this subject radical noodle Dec 2024 #151
Thank you, radical noodle Hekate Dec 2024 #156
Thank you, all true betsuni Dec 2024 #179
Rec! Well Said, Rad.. Thank You! Cha Dec 2024 #180
Great post radical noodle. sheshe2 Dec 2024 #239
Hi, She. Gods, remember when we were young? Remember the draft? And Vietnam? Kinda felt like politicians... Hekate Dec 2024 #152
Still not all caught up on this thread- but age IMHO- while some generalizations; it's way often an Individual Effect electric_blue68 Dec 2024 #166
History goes in cycles. I remember the fight for civil rights. usonian Dec 2024 #167
As a senior citizen LogDog75 Dec 2024 #169
I agree Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin Dec 2024 #171
Yes. sheshe2 Dec 2024 #173
If all leadership had age limits, term limits right now -- what's going to change? Nothing. Republicans still there. betsuni Dec 2024 #174
Look what was said about President Biden. Patton French Dec 2024 #195
What you seem to be saying is that there is a Bettie Dec 2024 #199
Still waiting for the OP to answer my question at what age does AOC become useful? Emile Dec 2024 #201
Right? Bettie Dec 2024 #204
I'm not the OP, but AOC is already useful radical noodle Dec 2024 #212
But according to some, she is too young to be ranking member of the House Oversight Committee. Emile Dec 2024 #215
I missed seeing anyone saying she's too young radical noodle Dec 2024 #218
How many terms in Congress before she is considered experienced? Emile Dec 2024 #220
The OP, me, spoke of the multitude of threads with ageist remarks. sheshe2 Dec 2024 #248
Sorry to hear you're having car problems. Emile Dec 2024 #249
Actually, I don't think it's an issue of age per se Mossfern Dec 2024 #266
Babe Ruth and Lou Gehrig were replaced when they faced age and illness. Gore1FL Dec 2024 #209
Boomers have been holding on to institutional knowledge and power for decades. There's been a stagnation in workplaces, WhiskeyGrinder Dec 2024 #221
Can you give some examples? themaguffin Dec 2024 #223
Member when JFK got elected? GreenWave Dec 2024 #229
Old here and had conversation just last night with son and said they need to get the younger LizBeth Dec 2024 #232
I was so much older then mdmc Dec 2024 #241
Some of us forget that it was in part Biden's experience that enabled him spooky3 Dec 2024 #256
What makes Connolly a better person to be ranking member on the committee? How does he help the party more than AOC? LonePirate Dec 2024 #259
I feel your pain. William769 Dec 2024 #261
Hey you. sheshe2 Dec 2024 #269
It's not age, it's culture Granny Blue Dec 2024 #268
These older ladies get it ThePartyThatListens Dec 2024 #271
I don't watch long videos. sheshe2 Dec 2024 #272
Reading some of the early posts on this thread, and I was thinking Dan Dec 2024 #277
I don't belive that ageism is always clear cut Polybius Dec 2024 #279
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