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Hekate

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52. I know I am not the only person who's glad you choose to be here, but also know online is no substitute...

Fri Nov 29, 2024, 04:05 PM

Nov 29

…for caring people in real life. 💔 That’s awful.

Don’t leave your estate to the state. You have other options.

I had a friend who left his whole estate to Planned Parenthood, where he had been a volunteer for many years helping put on the annual book sale. He had a grown daughter — never met her nor do I have any idea what was going on there. But his obit in the daily paper did say he left everything to PP.

Pick a charity or two, something dear to your heart. And may the New Year bring you peace. ❤️

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I'm done [View all] XanaDUer2 Nov 29 OP

Sometimes some people just suck. CoopersDad Nov 29 #1

Hugs. I'm sorry this is happening to you. onecaliberal Nov 29 #2

Dear XanaDUer2. You are loved here. trust me, it is hard to cut yourself off. but for your own health it must be done. debm55 Nov 29 #3

m being told by dr XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #4

Please lay down and listen to some calming music. Perhaps sleep. You don;t need them . You are better with out them. debm55 Nov 29 #11

Thanks XanaDUer2 Nov 30 #80

standard response? CharleyDog Nov 29 #17

I'm being treated like a neurotic nut XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #19

Agree, even non dentists, look at my chart and see the meds I am on and question me. I know the feeling. They make debm55 Nov 29 #34

That's how I was treated before I was diagnosed with auto immune. Don't give up. Clouds Passing Nov 29 #74

I'm so sorry... FirstLight Nov 29 #5

Democratic underground Keepthesoulalive Nov 29 #6

If there is life after death XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #7

Is there anyway you can leave BonnieJW Nov 29 #20

He pays bills XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #40

you have six figures Skittles Nov 29 #62

I can't easily access it XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #64

Why would that happen? If you've designated someone as beneficiary of your accounts, JustABozoOnThisBus Nov 29 #28

Not sure i understand XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #41

Oh, got it. What if you "accidentally" ... JustABozoOnThisBus Nov 29 #44

Naw he'll do something nasty to me XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #45

Sometimes, there's a point where you just have to put yourself first. surfered Nov 29 #8

Your half sister said go get a lawyer? jimfields33 Nov 29 #9

I texted her the whole maddening story XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #10

That's really upsetting. I had been going to ask whether Mike 03 Nov 29 #18

Mild intermittant traveling arnd skull XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #72

Try a chiropractor BonnieJW Nov 29 #23

Certainly worth exploring. summer_in_TX Nov 29 #69

That's horrible. I'm sorry about this. jimfields33 Nov 29 #31

Leave your monies to the dog/cat shelter CharleyDog Nov 29 #12

I was going to sign on XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #13

I was thinking the same thing. StarryNite Nov 29 #15

Kinda the same here..... 634-5789 Nov 29 #53

Rid yourself of ALL the toxic people in your life. They are ruining your life but you continue to care for them. LoisB Nov 29 #14

"Partner" i have an extra-nasty post-death surprise for XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #35

Reminds me of the old saying... rubbersole Nov 29 #39

Yep. LoisB Nov 29 #51

I like Demobrat Nov 29 #60

Ditto this! Phentex Nov 29 #63

Ty XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #68

I don't have anyone to leave my money to. Demobrat Nov 29 #16

Yes if i surviver this XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #21

Don't know where you are Demobrat Nov 29 #26

NC XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #36

Looks like you need a medical card. Demobrat Nov 29 #42

Ty XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #43

Spend it on yourself. IbogaProject Nov 29 #22

Its all I can do XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #24

Im leaving all of mine to the SPCA padfun Nov 29 #25

If it is a retirement account perhaps you can draw from it TBF Nov 29 #27

I hear you. People don't get that there are limits. Joinfortmill Nov 29 #29

Cousin has not been supportive XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #33

Have you tried a neurologist? Before they knew it was the jaw that cracked into my skull they thought it was the other debm55 Nov 29 #30

I have an ent appmnt XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #32

I have a lady friend today who is helping me remove things from my home. NBachers Nov 29 #37

They know about this problem XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #38

I don't know if this is something to consider snacker Nov 29 #46

Ty XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #47

Split it homegirl Nov 29 #48

No my "partner" esp i want the expectation XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #49

Omg XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #50

If there was no such person as trump, would your partner be better? SleeplessinSoCal Nov 29 #55

No XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #59

good luck with your new year's resolutions. SleeplessinSoCal Nov 29 #73

I know I am not the only person who's glad you choose to be here, but also know online is no substitute... Hekate Nov 29 #52

Ty XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #54

I have no caring ppl in real life XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #57

I don't blame you one damned bit. Paladin Nov 29 #56

I'll nvr forget this if i live XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #58

I sympathize with you Marthe48 Nov 29 #61

I told my gp when the headaches started XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #65

Yes, tell the information as many times as you need to Marthe48 Nov 29 #70

Oh in sure not XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #71

get out of that situation Kali Nov 29 #66

I asked my cousin XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #67

stop trying with your cousin Skittles Nov 29 #75

I am. XanaDUer2 Nov 30 #79

I'm so so sorry osteopath6 Nov 29 #76

Just listening XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #77

Ty XanaDUer2 Nov 30 #78