My friend died and his "friends" are evil

[RSherman]

I dated my friend for close to 5 years. We had a stupid disagreement and we were both too stubborn to pick up the phone. In December, he drove himself to the hospital and he died. He was only 63. I am dealing with so much grief and guilt, on top of losing my best friend and travel buddy.

A mutual friend called from VA to let me know Scott was in the hospital and to call his neighbor for more info. I drove to her house. I was sobbing and begging her to take me with her when she went to visit. She lied and told me he was in the hospital in Schenectady. He was actually nearby in Gloversville. She told me I was on a "no visit" list. I talked to Scott's mother, sister, and daughters afterward and they said there was no such list. (His family did not have my contact info.) The last day Scott was still alive, the neighbor already had his vehicle, his ATV, his bank card, and his benefits card. She kept asking if I knew his PIN number. Scott had dated a woman before me for close to 20 years. I asked if anyone had contacted her and this person said they were purposely NOT calling her until after Scott died. Because this neighbor was going to try to get his house/land! So, this evil woman let Scott die thinking Kelly and I did not care about him.

This all happened Dec. 29.

Lately, another neighbor has been showing up at my house. Knocking, ringing the doorbell, yelling my name. I don't go to the door because I figure he wants something. Poor Scott thought these people were his friends. Well, the guy caught me outside today while I was shoveling snow. Sure enough, he said he had been to Scott's house looking for certain power tools and an expensive lithium battery radio. He wanted to know if I knew where they were or if I had them. Then he claimed Scott owed him $400 and he wanted it from me! What the hell! People are horrible and now I'm all upset again.